Following Your Heart

Success = Following your heart

Failure = not following it

Heart = Love

Love

A four letter word

❤️

most of us will spend a great portion of our lives trying to:

figure out

experience

save

hold on to

chase

feel

or better yet

just to define what love is

The definitions I found online categorize love into three parts:

1) a strong or constant affection for a person

2) sexual or romantic desire

3)A person you love in a romantic way

Great definitions but underwhelming

How do these three definitions explain the myriad of feelings that I have felt towards activities, objects, and people that I love?

A simple word meant to encompass a greater spectrum of emotions and actions.

Perhaps an analogy might get across what it is I’m trying to say:

A young child waits for the school bus every morning

This school bus picks up all of the kids in the neighbourhood at a central spot

let’s say the park.

Every morning this child walks to the prearranged location and meets up with the 6 other kids to catch the bus to school. As the days go by the child begins to become friends with another child and one day the two of them are waiting in the rain and some of the others start splashing in puddles. The first child starts to head over and splash as well, but stops noticing that their new friend isn’t following.

The new friend doesn’t have rain boots so splashing in the puddles would mean wet feet all day.

the child loves their new friend

And doesn’t want to be exclusive

What would you do in this situation?

If a person you love was feeling excluded?

perhaps you might:

grab a pair of old boots

sit under the tree together and wait for the bus

Maybe take turns with the boots you do have

go barefoot with each other to the puddle

There are quite a few ways that the child could act that would be aligned with their feelings of affection and love.

In this scenario let’s say that

The child, realizing their friend doesn’t have the same opportunity for puddle jumping, takes off the rain boots and encourages the new friend to do the same with their shoes. Both barefoot they run and jump into the nearest puddle laughing and cheering until the bus pulls up. They both use the drive to school to dry their feet. Stepping off the bus they have big smiles and dry shoes, ready for a big day.

The child’s

Art

is taking off the shoes

the painting

is the two children jumping in the puddle together.

Art: a way of solving a problem that is skillful and individual to the artist

What if you wished to express love and affection on a canvas with paint?

The ups and downs you would experience getting to the final painting would be a lot different than mine.

Which makes sense in that our art is different.

We are Different

How we get to the final painting would be different

as would the paintings

The art world, critics, peers, social media, telling you what you should or shouldn’t paint, or what makes good or bad art would be like having a parent telling the child not to take off the boots, or a Good Samaritan giving a pair of boots to the child before the first drop ever fell

So how is this an analogy for art?

Well in painting we are always making decisions

Some decisions all make

to drink if we are thirsty

eat if we are hungry

it is in the specificity of these decisions that our individual voice in art is found

(choosing what to eat or drink)

In the analogy I’m sure you could think of different ways to show affection to some one you love who wished to puddle jump with you

Art is not stagnant or something that can be held down and quantified

There are an infinite number of ways to express

describing an action as if it were an object

“What a wonderful piece of art“

a painting, sculpture, film, or birthday cake

The art is the action it took to get to the finished product

The destination is the painting and the journey that the painter took to get there is the art

here is the tricky part

How much of the journey must the viewer know in order to understand the product of the Artist?

If I judge the efficacy of a painting

verses

If I judge the Art that got me there

How might these two judgements change the feelings of validity in my artistic pursuit?

Do I try to quantify success and failure in my paintings as a way to move forward?

or

Do I immerse myself in the process without concern for the final product

The answer that has helped me the most follows:

the quantifiable world is an anchor made out of styrofoam on the ocean of the abstract infinite


Good LUck

🤞